How do you know your spouse loves you? Well, hopefully you can give a better answer than, “He said so 38 years ago and yet indicated any change of mind.” See, I think that love demonstrates itself in loads of different ways, some of them relatively obvious and some of them much more obtuse. Some expressions function to makes us feel loved, but others simply help us to know that we are loved even if we don’t feel particularly moved by them. In fact, sometimes things that make us feel unloved can actually be expressions of tremendously deep love. And perceiving these correctly is a vital element of keeping a marriage strong. So tonight I thought it would be fun to share the things your spouse does that help you to either feel loved or to know you are loved.
Monday, April 13, 2009
Proof of Love
How do you know your spouse loves you? Well, hopefully you can give a better answer than, “He said so 38 years ago and yet indicated any change of mind.” See, I think that love demonstrates itself in loads of different ways, some of them relatively obvious and some of them much more obtuse. Some expressions function to makes us feel loved, but others simply help us to know that we are loved even if we don’t feel particularly moved by them. In fact, sometimes things that make us feel unloved can actually be expressions of tremendously deep love. And perceiving these correctly is a vital element of keeping a marriage strong. So tonight I thought it would be fun to share the things your spouse does that help you to either feel loved or to know you are loved.
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